We are trying not to seem as desperate as we feel. Tooty, who is almost 3 1/2, is still not too interested in learning to use the potty, and it's starting to become pretty frustrating. We are playing it cool, and adjusting routines and trying to make her see how great it is to wear panties and not a diaper. Part of the problem is she's stubborn and isn't interested, another is that she hasn't ever really cared too much if her diaper is wet...she'll asked to be changed when she's poopy sometimes, but it doesn't always seem to bother her.
So what do we do? Do you have any gems of wisdom in this area? A book suggestion we should read? A reward of some kind? We have already told her that she can't go to school until she learns to go potty all the time and not wear a diaper, but even as much as she wants to go to school, it hasn't changed anything.
Any and all advice is appreciated!